thank the gods im not in a volatile relationship. my brother and carrie just stopped by to pick up their daughter and it was a screaming fucking fuck this and fucking that and goddammit etc in the house. i said SHHH no YELLING coz summer (their kid) and i were taking a nap, plus its tiring.so there they were outside carrying on their rants and i could hear them all the way in my bedroom. so i go outside and ask them to take it to front lawn voices, please (very intentionally using the language they use with their child and hoping they would catch my drift) the neighbor has a four year old as well and she doesnt need to be exposed to their negativity. anyway i had to go out again and remind them they were in a public place and i understood they were upset but stop with the language, take some breaths continue in a normal voice.
whatever they were on about (i didnt dare ask, lest a new torrant of fucking fuck you fucker let loose) was nowhere near resolved although they did stop speaking about it for the moment. i fear they are sitting at home right now, screaming at each other while summer watches cartoons. jesus.
if my relationship EVER gets like that, im out. thats just not healthy, and money traps them both. i would like to talk to them individually and find out what the hell was going on, but not in the heat of the moment.
